We must constantly remind ourselves, and our ego mind, we are pure energy and vibration. What we focus on creates a vibrational signal sent out into the universe. We are, in a way, a magnet. What kind of magnet are you choosing to be? Are you a magnet which attracts situations or circumstances you would prefer not to experience? or are you a magnet attracting situations or circumstances you find joyful and want to experience more of? Although all magnets have a north and south point of attraction, or a positive and negative point of attraction, the focus of the mind will amplify which point of attraction is strongest.
The heart has no polarity, it contains no negative attracting point so it can only vibrate with thoughts of love for no opposite emotion can reside in its frequency.
You, thinking on purpose, are purposely focusing your magnet.
You, choosing your emotion, send out a signal to attract more of the same emotion into your life.
This has nothing to do with any other person, only yourself.
Being selfish with the way you want to feel can only better the lives of those around you. You can only reflect the vibration or emotion you are feeling. If you feel anger, you will reflect anger in your thoughts words and deeds, but conversely, if you feel joy and love you will reflect this emotion out to others in your kind thoughts, words and deeds. Life is pleasant for everyone by your selfishness in wanting to feel good.
We have been conditioned to believe we should serve others first, be humble, be a servant, etc. . . . but who wants an angry servant? A servant who does things out of obligation or does service because they are trying to live up to another's expectations? We then, do become servants or slaves to another. This creates resentment and dislike, frustration and anxiety, all lower vibration emotions. This is a form of codependency.
Be assured, everyone has their own point of attraction, their own magnet they are in control of. They have created the life they experience through their own purposeful focus.
Know, the only publication you have to others is to be selfish enough to put yourself first. Be selfish enough to want to choose the highest vibration emotions of love, joy and happiness. A better you reflects/vibrates out and creates a better world for all.
Be mindful of your emotions and be selfish about the way you want to feel.
Thank you for spending your time here.
We wish you love,